The Bachelorette S13 E02- "Get the *** Out"

May 30, 2017

A likable single woman gives herself six weeks to find a husband, sorting thru a motley crew of men, including a lying liar who lies and is caught in the act.

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I’mma hope there’s more to the story and The Fuquas have been legally separated so this story isn’t as horrendous as it seems. The idea of folks in their 50s still out here behaving at peak fuccboi behavior is appalling! Y’all ain’t tired of shenanigans and foolery yet?
My sympathy is with Mrs. Fuqua, his wife of 20 years. If the marriage was in tact, this is absolutely horrific. And even if they were separated, I’m sure it doesn’t feel good to have the world find out this way that your union is no more.
Also, the folks blaming Mrs. Fuqua’s weight for her husband’s infidelity are trash humans who hate women. No one deserves to be cheated on or humiliated, regardless of their weight/size. You’re unhappy? Leave. Try not to embarrass yourself or your partner when you go. This is a lesson folks should learn long before 50. #supportsinglepeen
Edit: calling this encounter “a friendly hello” to a “family friend” is insulting to the intelligence.

Life. LIFE!!! I’m in the middle of a gigantic #plottwist Head vs heart. Professional vs personal. The ground moves vs. various forms of water fall from sky. Subways vs. highways. Mountains vs skyscrapers. Slides vs AF1s. The original dream vs the latest dream. Demetria vs. Demi. #abelleinbk vs #LAbelle There’s no decision and no answers. Just questions. Lots and lots of questions.

Wow. Wow. Wow. • Also, I know A$AP just wants to get home. I know he does. Anyone in his situation would. But not like this, Bruh. I mean, not if you want a career when you get back. Tough decisions.

#tbt A Belle in Brooklyn. #sawsomeBK

Went to see the director’s cut of Solange’s new film, “When I Get Home”. I didn’t particularly care for it. Not bad. Not my taste. Some gorgeous shots of Solange and a lot of black people, including women, on horses. Or bulls. I kept thinking “this is like Old Town Road meets that SZA video Solange shot that time and when she performed on SNL.” I didn’t like the video either. Or that performance. The headpiece-hair was good tho. I’ve always thought Solange was pretty, here she is stunningly beautiful. There’s a scene of black men riding bulls that is up there with The Handmaid’s Tale in terms of art direction. Pause. I hate June more than I hate Nova Borderlone. That says A LOT. Anyway, went to see the Solange film with a friend @johnica from Texas (not Houston) and she was transfixed to the screen after the lights come up. She turns to me slowly and says, “I feel seen. That was everything I love about Texas.” She never had an accent. She had one when she said it. So maybe it’s me. Same friend took this complete LA tourist pic after and with my hair pulled back, which I like never, ever do. (Been working out twice a day. My hair looks nuts. I literally ate salad and water for dinner. With shrimp.) #seesomecheekbones #seesomejawline) Good times. #seesomela #LABelle #himom

So, last week, I slide in @benthewriter’s DMs like “hey. You’re a friend in my head. You write shows, I write books. We have to meet... please?” He responds back immediately and says “yes! Of course!” Two seconds later, a Mom, a Demigawd, is like, “hey, I’m in LA with my family. My oldest daughter adores you, listens to your podcast and follows you on IG and can you meet us to say ‘hi!’ while we’re in town?” So I say what @benthewriter said to me, “yes! Of course!” • I met @ambie_doll and the whole family and they were completely and totally awesome. They felt like home, but from Memphis, and we exchanged numbers and Mom promised to take me on a tour of the city (like William did Randall on #thisisus) whenever #ratchetandrespectable makes a tour stop there. Meeting them made my day! Also made me miss my Mom. I need to call home. ❤️

Stop tagging me in this 😂😂😂😂😂 #ratchetandrespectable

Going up, on Tuesday. • I haven’t been on a ferris wheel since 2011. Unfortunately, my ride wasn’t like Issa on Nanceford. 😂😂 Good times tho with my Bro @djceo and his wife/ my sis @shereenfromqueens (Next time, someone tell me my button is undone. You can’t see anything so I’m not putting an emoji over it.) • We went to the beach and did full moon affirmations after. I love all purpose people. Act up and prayed up too. Me: Dear God: *a combination of order my steps, I surrender all and it’s above me now* Also, bless the people that claim they hate me, hang on my every word and still get all the details wrong. I appreciate that they know my name and spell it right when they drag me. Amen.* #seesomeLA